Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Semester Break Part 2

So we went to the lawyer on the second day to deal with Baby's study money. He is under 18 so his father has to support his studies under the law. We could still force him to provide for Baby's studies by law. However, he is turning 18 this year. Was it coincidence that Mama passed away when we are almost all adult and legally responsible for our own studies, we will never know.
We decided to insist to stay in his house no matter what. Where else could we go? He said we have our ways and we have many supports behind our back. Yes, we have friends, people to depend on, unlike him. Was this the reason why he was always jealous of Mama and even punished her for talking to friends? Was this why he disliked us to know people who were nice to us? My lawyer said he is different and weird. Haha. Pathetic soul.
So we stayed in his house for the rest of the week, walking to the same coffee shop near his house for every meal. We locked ourselves in our rooms when he was home. He ran 3M as usual. We guessed he would not want to repay back the parents and the teachers so he might continue the business till the end of the month or the end of the term. We got no connection with the outer world at his house. The internet line was down, reason unknown. I couldn't check if there was any school assignment. Didn't dare to use his house phone as well. Totally cut off. I guessed this was what he wanted, to have us isolated, like him.
Brought Baby to some JCs in Singapore to try for admission yesterday. We were late and most JCs had ended take-ins. Baby wanted to register much earlier but was forbidden to do so. Father was smart. If Baby couldn't get a school before 18 he would not need to pay for Baby's school fees for the rest of his life. Sigh. Now we can only wait.

Semester Break Part 1

Went back last Tuesday for semester break. Didi also went back on the same day. He wanted to drive his car to fetch us for dinner. He wouldn't let Didi drive his car and said the car was his. He only allowed Didi to drive Mama's car. Didi then told him he already got caught once and spent $50 to 'bribe' the police. He stood at the gate to block Didi from driving his car to buy meals which he failed to buy as a father. There was nothing Didi could do so he took the car's key and walked out of the house. He shouted at Didi and dared him not to come back again.
He then called Baby and me (we were not in the house at that moment) and wanted us to get Didi back so that he could discuss things with us. We did as he told us to. He only wanted Didi to return him his car key and discussed about the closing of 3M. If 3M was closed now he said he needed to repay the parents and the teachers so that he would use up all his money and wouldn't be able to afford for Baby's studies. He still insisted that I was the 'boss' so I should also be responsible for the parents and the teachers if 3M was to close down. I requested to prove that I was the 'boss' and he beat around the bush again, as usual. We ignored him as he played us 'it is your name, but it could be mine..hmm ya it could be yours or maybe it is mine..'. Finally we came to the conclusion that 3M was not mine. It was under his name. So I asked him what was the thing that he made me signed when I was 18 and he said that was to cheat me!!! So everything had been a lie!!! He lied so well that none of us suspected anything. When I was 18 and Mama was still around! Everything was planned!!! Oh my god! So all our lives we have been living in lies and lies and lies. Were there more? How should we carry on now that we know we were cheated even before we were born? What if we can't accept anymore lies?
Anyway, he then wanted us to move out during these two days. He said it was his house and he didn't want to let us stay in anymore. He would give us back our birth certs and everything and we were to move all our things out within two days. He wanted to sell the house and move elsewhere. He would tour around the world to enjoy himself after much sufferings caused by us.